Originally Posted by
lostmyway I just don't know how to make that list...because I can't imagine that I have harmed these people who are either as bad off or worse than I was.
Your sponsor should have some suggestions for you.
My experience was most of the names on my 4th Step carried over to my 8th Step list, then my sponsor and I discussed whether I needed to make an amends or not. But it really didn't have anything to do with them being "bad off or worse", it's about understanding the part I played and clearing away the wreckage I left, sweeping my side of the street clean. Does that make sense? It ain't about them, it's about seeing myself, my behavior, and my actions clearly.
Well done on your first month, good progress.