Originally Posted by
suki44883 
There are probably different theories on this, but in my opinion, if a person needs to drink to keep withdrawals away, then that person is probably dependent on alcohol. Just having a hard time not drinking when alcohol is around doesn't necessarily mean that the person is an alcoholic.
i think there are a lot of different theories because to me it gets really confusing trying to figure it out. that makes sense though.. since dependency is supposed to be like a physical need for alcohol right? i've been sober for a while & dont remember going through any withdrawals at all but i feel like for how long i have been abstaining i shouldnt be having such a hard time not drinking when there is alcohol around.
but maybe its just like the saying goes-- old habits die hard.
im not sure
i love those quotes you have btw