"Is there anyone else that has had to deal with this type of situation? If so, please tell me how you managed it. I know I have to quit, but do not know how. I could use some help, please."
What I did might seem extreme and not for everyone. What worked for me in the beginning was AA. It was suggested that I bring an AA member to some functions I had to go to, as a pilar of support. So, I brought a sober AA buddy with me for a few events. Just introduced them as my new friend. Now, everyone knew I was in recovery. Those who didn't I would tell them that I'm not drinking because I want to lose weight. My "buddy" She was my diet partner. ;-)