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Old 03-07-2010, 08:15 AM
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JuneBug
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
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anvilhead I just wanted to respond to your post, I was upset because he lied and made no attempt to show me he was trying to help himself. To me if I was trying to gain someones trust back I would talk to them, bring them to where I was going so that they could see for themselves what is happening so that it takes out the lies, hurt feelings and confusion of the situtation and then I would know that I was making an effort to gain my spouses trust and begin to build that back up. Instead he maintains i have no right to be angry, he hasnt hurt anyone but himself, if I am hurt its because I couldn't let things go and mind my own buisness.

What I am doing to focus on myself is minding my own buisness, go to therapy, spending time with my friends, listening to myself, reading, walking, eating right, minding my own buisness, minding some more of my own buisness and having some tea every day.
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