(((Cindi))) - I'm so proud of all that you have done to protect you and the boys. That you had to do this, and deal with your dad dying is tragic, but you, my dear, are one strong young lady.
I have to comment on how the A does things they don't think about. Brit's dad (my niece - her dad is an A) broke into a police dept. where he was on a work release program...he stole drugs/money/guns. When he turned himself in, he was so high that he confessed to things he doesn't even remember! To this day, he denies he ever said this stuff...he's on tape!
I never got that far into my addiction, but I know many that did and I have no doubt D would go there. Please use all resources available to protect you and the boys...alarms, police, neighbors...whatever it takes. If he starts to sweet-talk you, if you start to falter, recall "that look" - the one that makes your veins run cold...the one that scares you. You never know when he's going to flip that switch.
We love you, sweetie, and we want you to be safe.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy