Hello all!
Thought I would throw in my two cents. My in-laws friend is a social worker. She stated to me that not all anti-depressants/anxiety work for every individual. In my case, she warned that I should not get discouraged if the first one did not work. However, I was lucky. Once I got over the side effects of Paxil, it is working great! Although, I do agree that we should really work our program. That is the most important thing. If you are still not feeling any relief, you should positively see your Doctor. And if anti-depressants are not the answer, something in the line of an anti-anxiety med may be the answer. Paxil is one, as is Valium (diazpam) and Ativan (lorezpam). Be evaluated by your doctor and be very honest so that he/she can help you best.
Know that I am praying for you every day!
Lolly