Be like teflon- right now just think about you. He is selfish....that's the way they are. It is a temporary problem. Maybe get someone else to help you out since he is not helping....he's just adding more ca ca to an already uncomfortable situation. This baby deserves to come into a no stress world, with a calm, healthy Mommy. I would try no contact and let him see his daughter away from you. The less drama you have the better. The less you "engage" the better. Being pregnant and having the flu is enough don't add a KINGBABY to the mix. Where is that link on KINGBABIES?