thanks again HS; one thing I've noticed is that my feelings are changing rapidly....one day I feel one way, the next morning i can do a complete 180. I am supposing this is part of the process of having a clear brain too.
I am impatient by nature, but am coming to realize that waiting and taking my time can be very beneficial to me also. i keep telling myself, "just give it another week before you fly off the handle and rip his lips off".....LOL