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I like whoever said standing in a church doesn't make you a christian any more than standing in a garage makes you a mechanic. Or like I say, standing on ice with a hole in it doesn't make you a ice fisher.
In anycase, my point. I go to bars and parties and choose not to drink. I figured when I quit that I would have to accept that alcohol would still be all around me. My friends drink, my boyfriend drinks, there is alcohol in my house. If I go out to eat there is usually a bar or drink menu. Instead of trying to defeat the demon I join it knowing it won't just go away because I choose to live a different lifestyle.