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Old 02-18-2010, 09:40 PM
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55438
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Join Date: Dec 2009
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Please know this

Before you drink when you are pregnant know this...

...your child will pay forever for your buzz.
...your child may become violent and put into jail before he is 14 (75% of boys with fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS) are incarcerated by the age of 14).
...the tax on the adoptive or birth family is so great that only 10% of them remain intact 10 years after diagonsis.
...your child WILL be mentally ********.
...your child WILL have social/autistic/language issues.

I adopted your child...

...my child will never drive his own car.
...my child will never have his own house.
...my child will always be a dependent of/on his sisters.
...my children are having to put up with a depessed mother.

I love my son.



I am sorry for my outrage. My adoptive son has FAS. He has attacked our other children, physically and mentally. IT IS AWEFUL. Our day to day life has been described as a battle field. We are all suffering from PTSD.

I read so many entries about pregnant mothers drinking. Simply put, it hurts me.


My time here on SR has not been easy but it has been supportive.

Could we please have an area for those of us with kids damaged by alcohol where we could support each other?

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