Yes that exactally what I think. He seems to bounce back so easily its wierd. I think he is so used to doing and saying what he needs to in order to get back into good graces with the people that always give him another chance. He seems like an excellent maniupulator. It is just hard sometimes for me to hear that i am selfish and that I have a problem...like I'm cold, selfish and may never find love if I cant stand by someone. I'm tired of standing by....really, really tired!!!!! Iv'e always been with someone with some sort of addiction so I know I have a problem, but i think it is more that I am becoming selfish because of this. any way thanks for the advice. I needed to release my frustration over this.
