Hi Chino, I have told my son with what I have learned about addiction and my codependancy I do have something to thank him for. I use all my tools in my everyday life now and it has helped me so much. Addiction and dealing with my son has taken me to a higher level of understanding how so many people can take advantage of us IF we let them. Our lives are calm for the moment and I'm enjoying the peace....Smiles, Bonnie