When I was dry I was miserable, I still blamed the world for everything and still wanted a drink deep down inside of me.
Sober/Recovery/recovered I accept full & total responsibilty for all my actions... all of them, whether I was drinking or not. The word "blame" is no longer a part of my vocabulary. I work daily on seeing myself for who I am, working on the issues of mine I need to work on, accepting I will never be all that I could be, but that I make progress daily if possible on changing me. Loving & tolerating others, helping where I can and stepping back & saying nothing if need be.
Accepting I am not God, never was, & never will be!!!
Seeking guidance from a God of my understanding and doing his will to the best of my ability.