Originally Posted by
mentallyexh 
I would also like to say but I think alot these days about what I can live with and what I can't.....and I question alot why I didn't think about this befoe....just a side note.
NOT a side note. This is important! And a very good sign that you are looking out for yourself. Congrats.
About his behavior:
It doesn't matter why he is acting the way he is. It matters whether you want that kind of behavior in your life. This is who he is RIGHT NOW. Is it what you want? You cannot base your decisions on who he might become, if this or that happened. All you have to work with is what is. Do you really want to "work it out" with someone who is angry and defensive? Hurling accusations and calling you names?
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