Oh, if only the A's did know how it weighed on the non-drinkers. If my abf would get sober, I think he'd be shocked as well. For us, we wonder why alcoholics CAN'T see. It's sort of nice and sort of sad to hear that you had no idea. Nice because, then we can see they're not doing it on purpose, not doing it to hurt friends and family. Sad because it's really debilitating, huh....
Keep the sober up!!!!!