Hi Saphie!
I expect that you will get a lot of feedback on this topic...
For what it's worth, my 2 cents is ask yourself
"Am I happy...content...serene? Do I feel like I am enjoying life, or just slogging along? Do I feel that my life is fulfilling ....complete...Do I see myself handling things with less resentment/expectations....Do I bottle things up, or address them head on....
Your answers should give you some indication....Obviously, we are not static beings and life is life...but in general, how do you feel???