Hey NEO!! What is "tbh"?
I totally hear ya. I have dipped my foot in that pool a couple of times and I'm still pretty much single. I'm ok with that. I also have kids, school and an X husband that's still so far up my butt, so my situation is different but all the more reason why still being single just keeps my life SIMPLE!!! WHEW!!!!
I think you've already said all that you know you need for yourself and just go slow. Use your "recovery" tools, keep your motives in check and you'll be fine.
I can tell you that while I did make some attempts at having a relationship it didn't take long for me to think to myself "this is why they say to wait at least a year", be a little more strong in your recovery, kwim???
Good luck NEO and have fun. You kick @ss.
