My wife was sooo happy when I told her. I'll let everyone figure it out for themselves. Her family is a bit judgemental....then they'll get sh@tfaced. My family never knew about my drinking anyway....I was great at hiding it and when to self medicate. My poor wife was the only one who had to deal with it and explain to the kids why daddy was sleeping on the couch again.
The reason its working for me is 'I' decided I was done with it....and SR. Thanks guys.