Oh Matt thats another thing my Dad says so not OT at all!!! His was a leopard never changes its spots, or you are who you are just accept it and get on with it!
Oh and get this my mother (not an alcoholic but IMO much more sick than my father, kind of reminds me of the star wars quote "who's the more foolish, the fool or the fool that follows him") always used to say no man is an island except your father and my Dad would puff out his chest like it was something to be proud of...oh man lol
Oh and don't ever trust anyone...anyone i said! And mate his view on women i just can't even post here, literally unbelievable...poor Dad!