Originally Posted by
gneiss 
I've spent a lot of time and tears trying to figure it out and never found a good answer. Whatever it is that guys like, I don't have, regardless of what my guy friends tell me.
Perhaps they see you as too far out of their league.
There was a gorgeous girl in my physics classes with all the characteristics you use to describe yourself... We all wanted badly to ask her out, but we were all way too convinced she'd want nothing to do with us.
-Goat