Originally Posted by
Alera Tell me where to find these guys that are willing to go out to dinner? They know I'm into things Bond, Computer Science, gaming, baseball and politics. I'm lucky to get a first date
You know what most guys want for a date, though... they want a ditzy easy girl, not someone who will stimulate them intellectually.
Gneiss is is a better position because she's already surrounded by more intellectually-aware males.
I was always in the same boat... the girls wanted the box of rocks with a nice haircut a stubbly chin and a degree in business (if anything at all). Not the hairy, leather-clad dude who talked about science and philosophy.
In the end I refused to change myself for them, and I'm very happy about that. I figure, let the ditzes have each other. I'll find someone worthwhile.
-Goat