After attending Al-anon for a little over a year, I think I am ready (and need to) begin working the steps. I figure I have little to lose by doing so, and hopefully much to gain.
I don't understand how it works or why it works, but I've been told numerous times that It works if you work it. Ones before me that have worked it say that it has changed their life, that their life is so much better as a result of working the steps.
Just wondering though, how and why it works?