It was me who was not following through on the ACTION part. Here I expected HIM to follow through on his ACTION to stop drinking for good and get treatment, YET I nevered followed through on my ACTION of leaving or separating everytime I said I was going to.
There are thousands of us that have done the same dance countless times. It is the dance of addiction and perfected by many a love one.
I finally acted. And when I did I got the shock of my life because he suddenly acted to. And then I was saying what the heck took me so long!
Stay strong. We are all here for you cheering you on. When you are ready to ACT you will.