I'm not a parent but he sounds like a normal toddler to me
Is there anyone who you trust who could babysit a couple of times a week, even for an hour or so? It might give you a break?
The important thing is - there must be better ways to deal with a toddler and the stress associated with that than drinking or using...the playing idea is a good one I think, for you both...when you can find something he likes...
Please keep posting here, as much as you like and need - both you and your son deserve a sober clean you
I think Oz meant this forum btw - you may find other parents there who been through the same thing
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