Originally Posted by
daphne 
Hey Dee you are such a wise man/woman (hard to tell from your profile pic !!!)
I probably take the rather difficult view that until you can come to terms with your past you will not accept yourself in the present
Maybe I have a "guilt" gene !!??
I'm a guy
Absolutely we need to come to terms with our past - I wouldn't be here if I hadn't.
But we can't *change* the past...so feeling guilt and remorse over it is fairly self defeating to my mind...
I'd rather do something than feel guilty.
We do what we can to make things right, or if we can't, we try our best to come to terms with it...then we move on....to me, redemption lies in today and tomorrow
It's not easy...I know.
If I'm wise I got this way by making many many mistakes for many years LOL
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