I thank ya'll for posting this. I'm working on my fourth step (through CR) and you more or less have to list your liabilities and assets (for lack of better words right now) and I'm afraid I'm going to do the same thing Anvil, miss something big and important - just like forgiving myself!
So thank you again for posting this and sharing about forgiveness. I worry that I'm going to believe I've forgiven only to later find out that I haven't - which will be a huge disappointment.