Hi Sunset, congratulations on staying sober for the night.
A normie drinker, that sounds just like what you need. Perhaps he enjoyed the fact you were not drinking so he didn't have to do the same.
Being sober is the most important thing right now so just take your time getting to know him because you want to get to know him rather than what you want from him to make you feel better i.e. attention, love (in the form of sex), company etc.
Easy does it