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Old 01-11-2010, 10:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Horselover View Post
Here's a little excerpt from "Excuses Begone!"

"If you're not doing well, the ego says that it's someone else's fault. If you're unhappy, unhealthy, indigent, unlucky, fearful, or any other negative descriptor that you can come up with, this is all the fault of something or someone external to yourself. While your highest self happily thrives on humility, the ego is exceptionally proud. Thus, when anything goes wrong, the ego's inclination is to blame someone else and maintain its pride.

Blame pays a colossal dividend, so the ego constructs something to bring it about whenever possible. That's why when you blame the economy, the political party in power, the oil-rich sheiks in Saudi Arabia, or anyone else you can think of, your false self receives a reward."
Hi Horselover and thanks,
I must stop making excuses and read that book, . That's very interesting when he talks about blame and the reward - I had never thought of that.
When ego is mentioned, I always remember edging god out.
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