Not yet, so far SR has been my only resource.
Also, I was going to take my ex out to dinner Sunday night to thank him for some of the really great things he's done for me recently. I guess I assumed it would be like our old dates: dinnner, back to my place, hang out and have him spend the night. I probably shouldn't think that way and I'm not even sure if HE was thinking of it as a date and/or planned on staying over. But I was, and that was wrong.
I just called him and explained everything and asked if I could take him to lunch one day next week instead. He didn't even seem upset about it. So that hurt a little, but I guess it also means I made the right decision. But this is going to be hard. I don't often do well when my feelings are hurt. Especially by men.