I often get calls from women such as yourself. I'm hoping that an experienced voice on the other end of the line can help you understand that you are in REAL danger. You don't seem to be taking it seriously from us here at SR.
They will first talk to you about your situation to assess whether there is a threat of violence. They will teach you some safety planning. They will give you numbers for local shelters so that you can call and tell them your story and get your name in their system. That way if you call and say "HELP!!!!" they already have your information and know you are serious about needed shelter (if it comes to that). They can provide a safe place for you and your daughter while you take time to assess what you need... a protective order? ....a lawyer? .... counseling? .... the police? ....transportation? ....day care? Your safety is #1 on their list of priorities. However, the bottom line is that it is your decision whether you stay or go, but at least PLEASE be prepared and be aware of your options. Study and practice a good safety plan.