Originally Posted by
lauraandersen4 
. I cannot convey how wonderful my relationship with my husband really is btw. It's been magical since day 1. He is eternally tolerant, loving and wonderful... and he loves me with every ounce of his being. It's as though he lives to make me happy and I try to do the same minus this one stumbling block of getting hooked on anything and everything I find able to give my mind a rest.
Thanks for the replies
Sorry to hear you are struggling Laura.
This paragraph describes how I thought my relationship was with my wife until she said quit or get out last year.
I knew she was serious so I quit. Do yourself a favor and quit now and do not risk getting into the position where you are under an ultimatum.
Now I realize she did it as much because she loved me as she did for herself but I sure didn't feel that way at the time.
I guess she did and does love me with every ounce of her being and that is why she helped me make our life together better.