I read this earlier and the first thing that came to my mind was an interpretation/explanation of the fourth step that I came across recently.
Traditionally Step 4 reads: "Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves."
The interpretation that spoke to me reads: "Took an intelligent look at our behavior, seeing its relationship to family patterns and dysfunctional culture"
I'm working on this, maybe gaining the teeniest bit of ground
(try googling Anodea Judith's 12 Steps if you want to read more, it's copywritten and I don't think I'm allowed to quote it )