my a.s. is 38 yrs old & i read your piost & can not believe that i was like u when he was your sons age. i can not believe i let my son & his wife stay with me while i supported them, their children & dished out money to them too. wow....i have grown & regret so much of what i did for (to) them.. keep coming back i care what happens in your life. i am so sorry. hugs & prayers,