I can't drink, that's a simple truth. I've been in and out of recovery ie: relapse for probably six years now. This has given me ample opportunity to figure out which behaviour changes work for me and which don't.
It's up to me to continue to live my life keeping Rule # 1 first and foremost.
As time goes by, it gets easier. Realizing the many benefits of not drinking and taking these into consideration helps me with my decision not to drink.
For instance, I was on the brink of losing my job. This is a job I truly enjoy and would not be able to easily replace.
Drinking= absenteeism,poor performance, loss of trust.
Not drinking=increased performance, 1 year no sick days, increased trust, and yup, mo money.
The choice is obvious.
Simple? Yes.
Easy? No.
Another example, I now drive a nice late model jeep, paid for. A year ago I was in a smashed up old tbird that barely ran(also paid for though).
This is why I rely heavily on Smart CBA. Simple and effective, at least for me.
I believe this is the only life I'm gonna get. I want to treat it with respect and take good care of it. No one else will. My life, My choice.
Keep well
Ron