Hi Lady Slur
Welcome to SR.
I don''t think any of us are ever out of options.
If one counsellor didn't work, did you try another one or another approach? Did you try different AA meetings? Did you get a sponsor? How long did you do these things?
Did you try other recovery programmes, like the ones here in this link?
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...resources.html
I'm not trying to put you down
I'm just trying to impress upon you that you're fighting for your life here.
If you want to quit, you owe it to yourself to keep trying, keep looking for whatever you can find, until you find the thing that clicks.
You'll find many many people here who did just that.
There is hope - don't give up
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