Thanks, Sunset ... I'm only four days in and have the very same feeling. Things are going along pretty well, only a few mild cravings ... but I know that day is coming and I'm really afraid of it, and afraid of myself and how I'll deal with it. When you described today, and your reaction to what the chat friend said, I definitely heard you and will not forget those words of wisdom.
I wish you all the best on the path and please keep coming back. I'm a newbie here too and know that I've been blessed to have found SR!