Originally Posted by
CocoaBean 
very confusing to a normal thinking person and trying to decipher it all will drive you insane.
Isn't that the truth! For me the only option was to let go and move away from it. Others here seem to be able to create enough distance or the ability to see it for what it is and still maintain a relationship. There were times for sure i thought I was losing my mind. I actually remember calling healthy freinds of mine, laying out the situation and asking them if I was insane, asking too much, or over reacting. Usually they totally agreed with my stand point and were just amazed I was still dealing with the insanity!