Thank you all for your responses and help....it helps so much to know that others understand the insanity involved in these relationships. The most frustrating thing right now is his facebook status post....read this....
"Biblical Scholars and Scriptural Exegete's would like you to believe that HELL is a burning furnace consuming flesh and eating souls for eternity. Hell is the mere absence of all that is Good, Holy, True.....(i.e. GOD). Take a Soul away from God and its engulfed in alienation, separation, Evil, Torture and no GOD!!!! There is truly no greater Hell than that!!!
If God is "Good" and thats gone- then you have lost ever knowing what is right, true, good, holy, one, peaceful and gracefilled in an instance!!! Wow that sucks! It's like the sun and oxygen cease to exist. "
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For someone who is SO book smart....how can he act/do the things he does....if he believe even an ounce of what the bible says he wouldn't be able to do what he does!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He is a hypocrite...it applies to all but him!