Thank you both!!
I have been amazed during the last week, how quiet and peaceful my house is without the constant ranting.
Even though I have been worried that he will ignore the restraining order and just show up one night, I am gradually getting my life back.
Meanwhile the county atty is in the process of filing more serious charges. Apparently this is not the first time (no surprize) and he has previous felony convictions.
One thing that does surprize me, is how much extra time I seem to have. He had certainly taken control of most of the hours in each day. Even from work he was constantly calling. I guess to see if I was a cheat like him. Which he also accused me of.