The Importance of Fun
Yep, good ol' fashioned fun! I've been working on "getting over" my xabf. I've realized how important it is not to sit around THINKING for too long. Thinking is good, yes. Being self-aware is also very important. But I think that limiting the amount of time I spend each day on mulling, pondering, and musing is key.
I realized that it's really important to go out and do something that is just plain fun. I've been taking lessons lately doing a sport that is tooootally out of my comfort zone. It makes me feel just nervous enough that I'm completely focused on the task at hand AND it's FUN!!!
My two cents? If YOU'RE having a tough time, aside from getting comfort and wisdom from this awesome forum, try to remember that life is short and you should go out and have yourself a little fun!