Kassie - doing great today-Thanks! Generally speaking the more time/distance between us the better I feel. He is staying w/ a friend - I feel a lot guilt over that (I know I shouldn't). However, I know that I can not keep going through what he does to me....I cna't. And more importantly, as I have said before.....I am definately not going to expose my children to anymore of this and risk them believing his behavior is normal or acceptable. I know this ia going to be a long hard road, but I don't believe he has any intentions to make a any changes in his attitudes or behaviors....and I meant it when I said those were deal breakers. I can do this!! Thank you for checking in.