Hummmmmmm.....we were married to the same guy. I thought you did a good job. It was kind and to the point. But if 51% of him wants to drink.....he will. They are just selfish King Babies. My integrity got me out. It wasn't a partnership anymore. It was like being pecked to death with the hurtful comments. Mine crossed more boundaries than those two......drugs....staying out late, drinking and driving,controlling the money,growing pot in the house, secretly filming us being intimate, just totally immature crazy stuff. I miss his potential......but not who he really was. I think you were being very fair.