I don't think it's rambiling when we're working something out.
Of course we put these personality traits in ALL aspects of our lives.
And it's wonderful you're seeing them.
I think it also showed
when you kept on trying to 'make it okay' for this guy.
WHen he didn't respond with 'everything being okay now'
it is still troubling you.
It's a GOOD thing, hon.
you learned something.