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Old 12-19-2009, 05:39 PM
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basIam
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Well, I ALWAYS follow it with hope. . sometimes the dialogue needs to be followed a little further than the initial post in which I break the terrible news. But I have found, from my personal experience, that the news has to really sink in before the message of hope is effective.

I never tell anyone they will die. I tell them that it is the most probable. This comes from my experience, as well as historical fact. To leave this out is a lie by ommission.

Again. . . I NEVER stop there. . . Granted, some may choose to not face the truth and high tail it before I get the chance to follow up, but I always present the solution.
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