Originally Posted by
suki44883 
All I can say is that you obviously haven't yet had enough. When you have, you will know.
I think in my heart of hearts I have had enough.
But, and I think this is the codependency part, I'm too afraid to calmly sit him down and tell him I want out. After everything he has put me through, I'm still worried about hurting his feelings! I feel like I'm waiting until the next big fight, so I can either pack up and leave, or tell him to get out and that would make it easier.
How twisted is THAT!?
I'm worried about hurting his feelings! UGH! The same man who threatened to leave me if I bought my kids a hamster. The same man who used once told my son "don't ever marry anyone like your mother". The same man who once told me that me changing my sons diaper was incestual. The same man who currently accuses me of cheating on him all the time, and always thinks I'm chatting to other men.
What is WRONG with me?