Originally Posted by
GiveLove 
I am sorry for all of the world's Latikas, of both genders. It is tragic where some people end up. But I only have one life to live, and I have to choose whether being rescuer/savior is going to be enough for me. Or will I reach the end of my life, sit on the edge of my sickbed, look back and say, "Oh my god, I spent my life making someone else's more comfortable, instead of doing what I was really put here to do."
This is what I am talking about. I think people are in general compasionate and caring and it is easy to get very wrapped up inwith someone who is struggling. I know I did.....