Welcome BigTex!!
Do you have a plan, do you have support, have you spoken to you wife...most of all are you ready to do the work to stay sober?
Don't drink today...do it hour by hour if you have to.
No different routes...hmmm...is there a park you could stop by or an ice cream shop to ruin the little one's dinner???
Its still early, but others will be on as the day goes by....and they are so much better at this than I am.