Hi katie, I give you alot of credit for going to see your son and offering a meal. With my son, its up and down and we do have contact so far. It breaks my heart to read your story but I'm proud of you for doing the right thing and taking him to where he is living. There has to be a special place for all of us that deal with our children and addiction. Stay strong through the holidays and know I'm sending a prayer for you and your family to the heavens....Smiles, Bonnie