You know what Mirage and J? I was shocked to find out "I" was bothered by the whole thing and I was resentful still. I wasn't as bad as last Christmas and hopefully, next Christmas will be even better, but I guess I am still a work in progress. I will always be a work in progress and that's something you can take to the bank. Thanks to all that responded. I really still use SR and will continue to do so. Hugs - Sarah