I remember long ago thinking how boring people were who didn't drink. It never occurred to me that maybe they were like us. I simply couldn't imagine having a fun or relaxing time without it. I wish I had asked myself back then why I needed to get numb to enjoy myself.
I'm so glad you made it through the party - and I can't believe how rude that person was to make an issue of you not drinking. Mostly, people haven't questioned me - but in the beginning when they did I always felt obligated to provide an excuse. Any more, I don't mind admitting that I had to give it up - it was becoming a problem for me. Once when I said that someone took me aside and talked about needing to quit themselves, and asked how I did it. Maybe most people feel like unless everyone else is getting sloshed they can't let their hair down. Thanks for your post, Sarah - it's always so helpful to hear how others are handling the holiday season. It's my second sober one in ages, too. Yay us.